Can I make a difference?

The difference in the way things are and how they ought to be.
I cannot change by trying to change the way that others see.
Each of us experience our own reality.
The ought to be that I can change are changes made to me.

A friend pointed out that I might clarify:

While I believe that I can’t change the way that others see.
I can still relate to them my own reality.
Maybe by example even just a word or two.
The ought to be I make myself may help another too.

I hope that helps.